Yesterday another month passed without Miss Immie, incredibly it started as not a sad day, but more as a day of reflection of how we coped and travelled over the last eleven months. I honestly can say I never could comprehend how on earth I could survive a second without our girl and here we are trillions of seconds down the road.
Ash and I delivered to her (or more to the kangaroos ; ), a slightly crumpled (due to Ashton throwing them around like a sword) bunch of flowers. They were bright orange; I know she would have loved how bright and happy they looked.
Ashton now days gives you very little time at Pinnaroo to sit and cry at her passing spot…ok no time; he is too busy chasing daddy kangaroos (eeekkk) and crows. Sometimes I go visit her on the days my mum has Ash just so I can sit there and enjoy the sun and quiet with my girl.
Having Immies angel anniversary on the first of every month, tends to collide with a lot of things.
Yesterday was no exception, when we were visiting Immie I received a text message from my friend Rochelle. We met when Imogen and her son Jarvis were in hospital. We did not spend a lot of hospital time with them, but were related in a horrible parallel world; due to the fact both Immie and Jarvis shared the same cancer.
After Jarvis’ third relapse he too gained his soft feathery angel wings yesterday, ironically eleven months to the day after Imogen did. I just know that Little Miss Bossy/Smiley Imogen met Jarvis with a huge hug and a pre selected position for him in her make believe school class room. Though apparently he too was quite head strong, so there may have been a battle of the heads to begin with, I am sure many negotiations were made between these two beautiful inspiration kids.
The world is a better place for having you here Jarvis,
No pain can ever touch you ever again,
You will never be forgotten,
You fought so hard to be here with your Mum, Dad and sister,
Fly free now gorgeous boy.
Sending our love and strength to The Brett Family.
With Love
The Holmes Gang
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we are honoured you take the time to read our blog : D